Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Kitchen Jam Session

Well, I did it...
I've had the same pots and pans since we were married over 10 years ago...I've had to replace a few of the most used pieces, but the set for the most part is intact...but looking very worn...I have heard a lot lately about nonstick cookware being toxic, so I looked up how long a set is supposed to last....from what I saw it said 3-4 years with MODERATE USE.....well, I use my pots and pans a WHOLE LOT more than moderate, especially since being a mommie and staying home and trying to save money...so I was having some anxiety about replacing my cookware ASAP...preferably with something that wont poison my family....I looked around, priced some sets, asked around, put out a question on fb, and finally bit the bullet and bought a stainless steel set from sams....having never cooked on stainless steel in my life....and I'm a nervous wreck because I HATE to do dishes....some I'm a fraid that I will regret getting some pots and pans that are difficult to clean...oh well...
anyway, a few days ago I got out all my new stuff and boxed up all my old stuff (still not sure what to do with all the old stuff...seems like a lot to toss in the landfill...but pretty sure they arent in any kind of shape to sell or give away...)
well, Josh has been SUPER helpful around the house lately....and yesterday he got home just in time for dinner and after dinner he jumped up to help with dishes (my knight in shining armor!) but I stopped him (must have been temporary insanity) to tell him that while I REALLY REALLY love and appreciate his help, I REALLY wanted him to spend time with the boys before bed....so what did they decide to do????
 an after dinner, kitchen jam session...
complete with cymbals

drums....

drum sticks.....

and a whole drum set!
hopefully eventually I'll get up a video of the racket...uh...I mean...music! He is just the best daddy!
and ps-please no comments about the state of my kitchen or my floor....just see the cuteness, ok? :)

The things he says...and does x2!!

Wesley's verbal skills are taking off....here are some of his latest sayings:
*At mealtime he has started folding his hands to say the blessing, and at the end he will either applaud (He must take after his Great Aunts Beverly and Kitty! :) or he will say "may-men" for amen...
*He is learning body parts and knows them pretty well....his latest is "elbow" which he can say fairly well...what cracks me up is that he also uses that word to indicate his FAVORITE Sesame Street Character....any guesses....ELMO....so he will knock his elbow while running to my room to sit in his spot to watch ELMO....or while wearing his ELMO shoes/shirt/hat...he LOVES the guy...and honestly, I'm not upset at all, because at least I have found ONE show he will watch (as long as he is strapped down) sO I can take a shower and get a few things done....ELMO has been my go-to guy!
*Speaking of body parts....he LOVES reciting the parts of the face while touching/poking them...at least once a day you will hear him run through "eye....ear....mowf....nose....hair...." on us or on Bo...but what's funny about this is when he is in trouble and we are trying to have a "talk" with him....not sure if he is trying to change the subject or what, but it's hard to stay mad at a little tyke who is poking me in the ear and nose while I am fussing at him!
*Jack is getting into jokes and he's learned a few knock knock jokes....which Wesley loves to imitate. He will call out "Knock, knock" and wait until we say "Who's there?" then he will start the only one he knows "nana" (banana) so we will reply..."banana who"....and of course he doesnt understand the concept of a punch line, so he just starts it all over again with the same "banana" line....which is funny since that's the way the joke actually goes...except he doesnt understand when after the 10th time around we tell him to PLEASE say "orange"...it'll be nice when he learns that part of the joke too!
*He also has some funny names for objects, my favorite is that he calls our phones "hehwhoa!" and the WHOLE time we are talking on it he is wailing "hehwhoa! hehwhoa!" demanding that we hand him the phone! It's made for some interesting phone conversations lately....my apologies if you have tried calling me lately! He also calls the camera "cheese!"...and yells that out the whole time we are trying to capture a kodak moment....makes for some interesting pictures!

We have also had some interesting conversations with Jack lately:
*About a month or so ago we were driving around town and we were singing some songs, one of which is "I've been redeemed...by the blood of the Lamb" and Jack asked "what does redeemed mean?" so I had to think of a spiritually accurate, yet developmentally apropriate resonse to that....which is actually fun....I love moments like that where he is actually listening and thinking about what he is hearing!
*On a much lighter note, that same night Jack was reading signs and stores and he asked "Why dont we ever go to the "Smoke Station?" I told him that is a place that sells things we dont buy, like cigarettes....well of course he wanted to know what those were, so I told him they are things that some people use, but we dont buy them because they cost a lot of money and make people sick....he thought on that for a few minutes, and then declared, "I know why cigarettes make people sick....it's because they have boogers in them, right mommie?"...you have to understand, we've been having  a LOT of converstaions lately with a certain 4 year old about NOT picking his nose...and eating it....GROSS....telling him they are germs and they will make him sick and the rest of us sick too....so to him sick=boogers.....(PRAISE THE LORD...that phase seems to have finally passed...)...a few weeks after this conversation he was riding around in Bertie's car, and informed her of his cigarette/booger discovery...there was a little bit of a question mark in her voice when she told us about that conversation later....we had some explaining to do....and THEN a few weeks after that, we were praying for a family member who is very sick, and when the prayer was over Jack asked....Why is she sick? Was is because she was using cigarettes too?"
*One morning as I was unloading the dishwasher after breakfast I was trying to explain to Jack why it was important for him to help me, even if it wasnt his favorite thing to do...I explained that I dont love doing dishes either, but I do it because I love my family" He asked me "what else do you love, mommie?" and I told him "reading, watching tv, eating, knitting, and getting hugs and kisses from my little boys" he jumped up and ran over to me and planted lots of hugs and kisses on me....it made doing dishes much much more enjoyable!
*Jack was helping me in the garden and he was enjoying playing with the worms, etc, and I pointed out a spider and told him that I am scared of spiders...but he apparently knows EVERYTHING about spiders...from Little Einsteins or Cat in the Har or something and he assured me "Dont Worry Mommie, Garden spiders are good, TRUST ME!"....and he has said that multiple times after that...well..that's just great....but they arent good for my nerves...so they will get squished if they are in my personal space!
*I have convinced Jack that Dandelions are my VERY FAVORITE flower in the whole world, so he enjoys going around our yard and picking as many dandelions as he can find....the best of both worlds...getting my yard weeded, and getting love from my favorite 4 year old at the same time! Priceless!
Oh how I love these boys!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Spring Break Day Trip, part 2

we still had a lot of daylight left, so we headed to the Chattanooga Choo-choo...via the awesome FREE public transit system in town.
Wesley was trying to be cheerful rather than sleep deprived and crabby...passy and sippy cup were helping

as I was passing out cups and snacks, my little voracious reader was taking in all the rules and regs at the front of the bus and very loudly informed me that the sign said....NO FOOD OR DRINK ON THE BUS...SHHH smarty pants!



it only took a few minutes to get to the choo-choo....
it's sad to me that most of memories of the choo-choo were identical to our visit this time....no one there and all the shops closed....at least this time there appeared to be viable shops in the area...just that we are usually there off hours!
oh well, the boys probably wouldnt have appreciated browsing much anyway...












By the time we caught the tram back to the aquarium, our internal clocks were all thrown off...with kids the time on the clock doesnt matter so much as whether their BODIES are hungry or tired, etc...but given the time change and the time zone change, I had NO IDEA what time our bodies thought it was...at least not without the aid of an abacus, slide rule and scientific calculator!
We ate dinner at Mellowmushroom which was tasty if not a LONG WAIT...and I'm pretty sure Wesley was asleep within 5 minutes of getting in the car to head home.
It was a fun day, hopefully next time we make a day trip we wont have so many time factors working against us and we can have even more fun!

Spring Break DAY TRIP, part 1

Earlier in the first week of spring break our newest babysitter (a high school student) texted me that she was available to babysit anytime during spring break, so after a quick conversation with Josh, we planned a DATE NIGHT! While on the date, I suggested doing something wild and crazy and taking a spur of the moment day trip the next day...and he said SURE! YAY!
We looked over our options...mainly deciding between the Knoxville Zoo and Chattanooga Aquarium...Daddy made the call at Knoxville, and the next morning we headed out....
did I mention that it was also the morning of Daylight Savings...or that we got a much later than planned departure....and that either location is in a different time zone....so it seriously felt like we were starting a half-day behind....so when we stopped in town to get gas, I added up how long it would take us to get there +time change+closing time and realized we would spend more time on the road than we would actually spend at the zoo....so instead of getting on I40E, we got on 111S and headed to Chattanooga
the boys waiting on me to get tickets

love, Love, LOVE these boys!

Wesley was SUPER EXCITED...and is allergic to holding hands....


he's swimming with the fishies!
piranhas to be exact!

Wesley couldnt figure out how to get up there

peeking in at some snakes

can you hear him saying "fiss...fiss....oooh!"



Lots of pictures of the back of their heads

sweet brothers...

looking at sturgeon...Wesley was entertaining some grandmotherly ladies with his sounds of amazement and his signs, so he turned around to grin and flirt with the ladies, and then when he turned around to see a sturgeon right in his face, his "OOOH" cracked everyone up!


penguins! my favorite!

wesley started getting REALLY punchy near the end of the aquarium...so he had to be wrangled a lot more

swimming with the creepy crabs!

yes, this really is him trying to smile...oh my....



trying to get some sweet posed pictures with my boys...

by the time we did this one...Jack was DONE with pictures for a while, and as you can see by Wesley's almost horizontal position and passy in these 2 pics....he was DONE too!
Going through the aquarium was very different this time than it had ever been before....we last went a few months before Wesley was born...probably right at 2 years ago...and we were able to meander and gaze at everything....but this time with 2 very curious and MOBILE busy little boys, it felt like we ZOOMED through and barely even came close to getting our $65 worth....plus in the great hallway of tanks, one half of the tanks were closed off....so that helped us get through a whole lot faster....but the boys LOVED IT...so it was worth it!

Soccer Star!


Jack had his first soccer game this past Saturday.
We were a little nervous because the 2 previous practices were cancelled due to rain...so who KNEW how these kids would do....had some of them even SEEN a soccer ball before?
Loading up to head to the game...it's only about a mile from our house...nice and convenient on a Saturday morning! No shirt because we hadnt met the coach or anything yet!
We were a little nervous getting Jack ready for the game because 1)not sure how to dress him and 2)he was freaking out about how tight his cleats were feeling with the socks and the shin guards....insisting they were too tight and he couldnt walk..we loosened them...assured him they would feel better...(I really wondered how many other parents of first time soccer players were having identical meltdowns at their homes that morning...KNOWING that as soon and the excitement about playing sunk in...the tight shoes would only be a memory)
all suited up, and ready to go...with soccer socks added to the tight shoes...never heard a word about that! ;)

Jack and Coach Jacob....who was so amazing with the kids...(he's pretty much a kid himself...what and OLD thing to say!) He really was wonderful with them....kidding around, patient, silly...the kids LOVED IT! Jack kept trying to tell him long drawn out stories...but there was NO TIME!

kicking the ball!


on the move! we were playing the blue team...notice that every blue team member had to have a parent out their with them....at all times...the kids were very nervous...but not the "orange slices"....they were confident and excited....I dont think a single one of our team parents stepped foot onto the field! I was so proud. Josh said he feared Jack would be nervous like that....I wondered if he would, but didnt really think so...I just didnt know WHAT to expect from him...but I was SO IMPRESSED!

getting pointers from Coach Jacob!

I had to run home to get chairs, so I missed the first few minutes of the game (Josh got video below) and I missed Jack getting a goal! I made a big deal about how proud I was and told him to make another one so I could see it....so he DID! AS he was running back he said "Hey Mommie, I made a goal...did you see?" It was SO ADORABLE! (Although I think Daddy was a teensy bit jealous that I got the shout out....apparently Bill Cosby mentioned something about this in one of his routines...he's becoming more and more accurate about parenting the further along we get in this whole experience! :)



Wesley didnt quite understand why he had to be cooped up and what all the fuss was about...we'll need to do a better job next week of getting him interested and involved in the fun!


which way do we kick the ball????

action shot!

is Wesley TEXTING?

proud proud mommie!


giving high fives and "good games" at the end of the game....what I am loving about games at this age is that there is no pressure on the kids...just have fun, learn rules and techniques and sportsmanship, and celebrate each goal...we didnt even keep track of the score (although I'm pretty sure the orange slices would have won! :)

I tried to get a shot of his grass stained socks...the boy took a little spill and kept on running!
can I also just say that I am a teensy bit sad that his team colors are ORANGE!?!?! SERIOUSLY...if there is a single color in the whole world that we DONT have in our house...it's ORANGE! Besides that, it looks horrible on me...so I'm not sure I will be dressing to match the team....kinda bummed!